an embarassing question..

pumpkin · 06-22-2010, 02:34 PM

I have noticing when i get an orgasm my w/d becomes much worse the next day.Ive got headaces and brainfog and i wonder if i shouldnt have sex at all.Is there anyone else who has noticing this problem and is it not good for the brain??I dont know what to do...is this bad for my recovery?

thinksecret · 06-22-2010, 02:56 PM

hey pumpkin,

I have made similar experience (you answered my latest thread) now after that sticky pain in my head, I had now 2 days terrible migraine and sickness in my stomach, now it's better again but also don't know what that was...now I'm making a sexual time-out also because auf testicles pain, perhaps this all is part of a healing process (I hope so!)

best wishes for you

Niko

scared36wife · 06-22-2010, 06:11 PM

Hi:

That is so funny, my husband complained about the same thing. He says the next day after sex he feels worse, tired, brain fog, revs up CNS. The moment after feels good b/c of the relief of endorphins due to the pleasure, then it only lasts a few moments.

They say sex is healthy but in this state it seems to make him feel worse, go figure. This process really ruins every aspect of pleasure!!!!!!!!!!

NoRx4me · 06-22-2010, 07:01 PM

There have been several posts about this. Do a search with the word "orgasm" and you'll come up with more threads. Here's one:

http://www.paxilprogress.org/forums/...ghlight=orgasm

celticsfan · 07-04-2010, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pumpkin

I have noticing when i get an orgasm my w/d becomes much worse the next day.Ive got headaces and brainfog and i wonder if i shouldnt have sex at all.Is there anyone else who has noticing this problem and is it not good for the brain??I dont know what to do...is this bad for my recovery?

Thanks for posting. Ok now I know why I was getting migraines the morning after! Sheesh! I was never one of those people who suffered from migraines, but ever since I started "gettin' down" lol, I would feel awesome right after... I felt high. I would sleep great, and then the next morning would feel like a bad hangover. I didn't just start having sex until about a month ago, and for seven months before that, I did not want to be touched at all! Crazy isn't it?

celticsfan · 07-04-2010, 04:50 PM

Oh and one more thing. I have been desensitizing myself to stimuli slowly ie. light, sound, foods (taste) etc. That has helped tremendously!! I guess I would have to do that with sex too. I guess a schedule would help in this case LOL (j/k). I would have to figure out a way around that one!

06-22-2010, 02:34 PM	#1
pumpkin Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: sweden Posts: 159	an embarassing question.. I have noticing when i get an orgasm my w/d becomes much worse the next day.Ive got headaces and brainfog and i wonder if i shouldnt have sex at all.Is there anyone else who has noticing this problem and is it not good for the brain??I dont know what to do...is this bad for my recovery? __________________ Did a ct after adverse reaction, last pill taken:July 09 1-8 month in w/d hell! 9 -10 month noticing small improvments but still very sick 11 month out and had a little but managebal wave 12 month very mild symptoms 13 month back to hell with old symptoms and new 18 month started to feel better 24 month windows got longer 30 month(now)some mild symptoms and some with no improvments,still very sensitive to many things.

06-22-2010, 02:56 PM	#2
thinksecret Join Date: May 2010 Location: Germany Posts: 24	Re: an embarassing question.. hey pumpkin, I have made similar experience (you answered my latest thread) now after that sticky pain in my head, I had now 2 days terrible migraine and sickness in my stomach, now it's better again but also don't know what that was...now I'm making a sexual time-out also because auf testicles pain, perhaps this all is part of a healing process (I hope so!) best wishes for you Niko __________________ Und ich weiß du gibst dir Schuld für die Fehler, doch hör mir zu du bist Mensch und handelst mal falsch da musst du durch so wie jeder.

06-22-2010, 06:11 PM	#3
scared36wife Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 198	Re: an embarassing question.. Hi: That is so funny, my husband complained about the same thing. He says the next day after sex he feels worse, tired, brain fog, revs up CNS. The moment after feels good b/c of the relief of endorphins due to the pleasure, then it only lasts a few moments. They say sex is healthy but in this state it seems to make him feel worse, go figure. This process really ruins every aspect of pleasure!!!!!!!!!!

06-22-2010, 07:01 PM	#4
NoRx4me Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Florida Posts: 2,573	Re: an embarassing question.. There have been several posts about this. Do a search with the word "orgasm" and you'll come up with more threads. Here's one: http://www.paxilprogress.org/forums/...ghlight=orgasm

07-04-2010, 04:50 PM	#6
celticsfan Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 118	Re: an embarassing question.. Oh and one more thing. I have been desensitizing myself to stimuli slowly ie. light, sound, foods (taste) etc. That has helped tremendously!! I guess I would have to do that with sex too. I guess a schedule would help in this case LOL (j/k). I would have to figure out a way around that one!

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